Welcome to my page. I am here to motivate and inspire to change the way that you think about yourself and the life that you are living.
I believe that if a person changes the way they think and process how they feel they will be able to live a healthy balanced life.
I am here to motivate and inspire you to open up your mind and take a chance of becoming a better you. You are the only one who is able to metamorphosis yourself from a victim to an overcomer. To make the impossible, possible. But sometimes in order for us to take that first step we need a little push. Check out my blogs below and get inspired. Because being you is the best accomplishment you will ever do! So, wear you like no one else can! And remember You are Beautiful!
From the Author that brought you 3 Women 3 Lives from Hell to Glory and Mending a Broken Heart: Love conquers all. She now brings you a new book: A life I once Knew. Follow the life of Jessica and Jad as they face fear and overcome death. With the help of each other they will find a way to survive the truth about their father and the loss of their mother.
If Can’t Hold Water, Don’t Drink
What I know about people is they like to talk. They like to talk about what they heard and who they head it from. If that’s not enough, when they don’t have anything to talk about, they will often make something up. But in doing so, they all say the same thing: “Don’t day anything to anyone” or “You are the only person that I told.” In the meantime, if you happen to have the same circle of friends, you will often discover that the one who loves to gossip will let the cat out of the bag first. The first thing you will hear is: “Girl, guess what so and so told me?” Letting you know that you are not the only person they told. In this situation you have a few options:
1) Act surprised: “Wait, what?!” 2) Go directly to the source. Say something like: “I thought I was the only person you told?” This gives them the chance to clear the air. The last and best option is 3) Don’t say anything. Keep it all to YOURSELF.
“He say”, “She say”, conversations are the most common situations we find ourselves in.
The best thing that I have learned to do is listen. When you listen, you know who is actually for you and who is not. You know who you can trust and who you can’t. But if you are the one who everyone is talking to and you know you can’t keep what someone is telling you then you shouldn’t be the one listening to gossip behind someone else’s back. Telling someone’s secrets when they confide in you with confidence is never ok. Making someone believe something that is not true does not display good character. So, if you can’t hold water then don’t drink it. What that means is just because other people act in a certain manner does not mean that you have to. If you know that you have a problem with talking about others or cannot be trusted when someone is confiding in you, be honest with them and yourself. Do not absorb their information. Let them know that it is hard for you to hold information. That the person can make an informed decision. Do, if they decide to tell you anyway, it will be in them and not on you. being able to keep with someone has told you. before they even start stop them and talk about something else or just be honest with them and say. Hey if you tell me this, I might not be able to keep it. I won’t tell them but I am going to tell someone. Friendship and trust are important so, don’t through away a friend by making a bad decision.
Written by Nikeeya Patterson 01/15/2020