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I believe that if a person changes the way they think and process how they feel they will be able to live a healthy balanced life.
I am here to motivate and inspire you to open up your mind and take a chance of becoming a better you. You are the only one who is able to metamorphosis yourself from a victim to an overcomer. To make the impossible, possible. But sometimes in order for us to take that first step we need a little push. Check out my blogs below and get inspired. Because being you is the best accomplishment you will ever do! So, wear you like no one else can! And remember You are Beautiful!
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Don’t look at your situation
The first thing you really want to keep in the forefront of your mind is that your situation is not permanent. It is temporary. Although there are some exception that do not apply; i.e, medical conditions or mental state. However, if you truly reflect upon every challenging situation that you have encountered in your life you will see that they were only temporary. They did not remain the same. In some cases we grew up, went to a new school, made new friends and learned how to stand up for ourselves, Changed jobs, got a job for the first time, lost weight, gained weight....Ect.
The key is to remind yourself that what you are going through, will not always be this way. You may go through another situation in 10 years, but it will not look like what you are going through now. The biggest difference, is that hopefully you will have grown and learned from your past experiences. For example, when you were a child, if you wanted a beverage opened you would take it to someone to have it opened for you. Because you were not strong enough or did not get the concept of twisting the top and taking the lid off. But once you got a little bit older and a little stronger you were not only able to get your own beverage out of the refrigerator, but you were able to twist the top off and drink the beverage.
As we grow up, we go through lessons in life that shape our views and how we process information. The key is to take the experiences from those situations that you have gone through and learn from them so that you can draw from them the next time around. You should never go through anything without coming out knowing something.
I have learned, that if you go into a situation and you don’t learn anything from it the first time, until you stop and take the time to learn what it is you need to do differently, you will go through that situation over and over and over again, getting the same results. It’s the same process as you learning how to twist off the top to your beverage or learning how to open the top of a can. It takes time and patience, but once you learn how to do it, you can do it over and over again with no help.
There are times when the beverage top just won’t open and you will have to ask for help. It does not mean that you haven’t learned how to do it. It just means that the top was put on so tight it takes a stronger person to twist it off. What I am trying to say is, in some situations you will face, in order for you to make it though you will have to reach out to someone that has already been through your same situation in order for you to get wisdom and understand how you can get through it. Sometimes you need someone to draw hope from, that you will make it through. But once you get through it and the situation shows up again, you will know how to twist that top off because you are stronger and wiser and you have the understanding needed to be able to turn it around.
I really hope this makes sense. Just remember we all have to go through something. But it is how you go through and what you learn while you go though, that is going to make a difference. Situations will come and go but that does not mean they have to stay.
Written by Nikeeya Patterson 8/14/2019